projet de naissance<\/a> : apr\u00e8s tout, cela vous concerne tous les deux !<\/p>Si finalement vous n\u2019\u00eates pas \u00e0 l\u2019aise le jour de l\u2019accouchement, l\u00e0 encore parlez-en \u00e0 votre femme et \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9quipe. Autorisez-vous \u00e0 faire des pauses, vous reviendrez plus disponible psychiquement pour votre conjointe et votre b\u00e9b\u00e9. <\/p>
Beaucoup de personnes ont une peur phobique de l\u2019h\u00f4pital, du sang, des piq\u00fbres. Si c\u2019est le cas, sachez que vous pouvez b\u00e9n\u00e9ficier d’un accompagnement psychologique pendant la grossesse, au sein m\u00eame de la maternit\u00e9. Et si cela n\u2019est pas envisageable pour vous d\u2019assister \u00e0 l\u2019accouchement, parlez-en franchement \u00e0 votre compagne qui pourra alors \u00eatre accompagn\u00e9e par la personne de son choix en salle de naissance.<\/p>
\u00ab Je ne souhaite pas que mon ou ma partenaire assiste \u00e0 l\u2019accouchement \u00bb<\/h2>
\u00c0 l\u2019inverse, certaines femmes ont peur d\u2019accoucher parce qu\u2019elles ont peur de se mettre \u00e0 nu devant leur partenaire, de perdre compl\u00e8tement le contr\u00f4le. Est-il possible alors d’emp\u00eacher le coparent d\u2019assister \u00e0 l\u2019accouchement ?<\/p>
Comme souvent, l\u2019un des conseils les plus fondamentaux est de discuter ensemble afin de mettre \u00e0 jour les envies et les craintes de chacun. \u00ab\u00a0Je voudrais que tu assistes \u00e0 l\u2019accouchement mais j\u2019ai peur que cela change nos relations, notamment sexuelles, par la suite\u00a0\u00bb ; \u00ab\u00a0Je ne veux pas assister \u00e0 l\u2019accouchement mais j\u2019ai peur que l\u2019on consid\u00e8re que je ne suis pas un bon parent\u2026\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>
Le temps de la grossesse est un temps o\u00f9 peuvent se poser mille questions et o\u00f9 peuvent se travailler certains sujets en lien avec sa place de parent. Il est donc essentiel de trouver une solution qui va vous convenir \u00e0 tous les deux, car l\u2019accouchement est un temps essentiel de votre histoire conjugale et familiale.<\/p>
Parlez-en avec une sage-femme, qui pourra vous indiquer comment se passe le travail et comment votre pudeur sera pr\u00e9serv\u00e9e. Votre partenaire peut aussi ne pas assister \u00e0 l’accouchement, mais revenir d\u00e8s la naissance de son enfant. <\/p>
Et puis r\u00e9servez-vous le droit de changer d\u2019avis ! Si la pr\u00e9sence de votre moiti\u00e9 vous angoisse, n\u2019h\u00e9sitez pas \u00e0 lui demander de sortir quelques instants et \u00e0 en parler \u00e0 la sage-femme. Celle-ci trouvera une solution pour que vous puissiez vous sentir plus \u00e0 l\u2019aise. <\/p>
Et si c\u2019est le deuxi\u00e8me parent qui est plus angoiss\u00e9 que pr\u00e9vu, l\u00e0 encore il ne faut pas h\u00e9siter \u00e0 en parler \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9quipe, \u00e0 sortir, \u00e0 faire des pauses. Il est tout \u00e0 fait possible de rester \u00e0 proximit\u00e9 et d’apporter un vrai soutien sans assister \u00e0 tout le d\u00e9roul\u00e9 de l\u2019accouchement.
<\/p>
Lucille CLOAREC
Psychologue clinicienne
Saint Cloud<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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