{"id":6322,"date":"2021-12-31T14:49:41","date_gmt":"2021-12-31T14:49:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/heloa.app\/blog\/non-classe\/comment-apprendre-a-faire-lamour-autrement"},"modified":"2024-09-10T06:35:56","modified_gmt":"2024-09-10T04:35:56","slug":"comment-apprendre-a-faire-lamour-autrement","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heloa.app\/fr\/blog\/parents\/sexualite\/comment-apprendre-a-faire-lamour-autrement","title":{"rendered":"Comment apprendre \u00e0 faire l\u2019amour autrement ?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Si l\u2019on \u00e9voque le temps de la grossesse et les transformations corporelles de la femme, la question primordiale reste celle du d\u00e9sir.<\/p><h2 id=\"faire-l-amour-pendant-la-grossesse\">Faire l&rsquo;amour pendant la grossesse<\/h2><p>Quelle \u00e9tait la <a href=\"https:\/\/heloa.app\/fr\/blog\/parents\/sexualite\/etre-parents-et-rester-amants\">sexualit\u00e9<\/a> du couple avant la grossesse ? Existe-t-il chez l\u2019un ou chez l\u2019autre une baisse de la libido au cours de la grossesse ? Peuvent-ils en parler, entre eux ou \u00e0 un professionnel ?<\/p><p>Quoi qu&rsquo;il en soit, il s\u2019agit alors moins d\u2019apprendre \u00e0 faire l\u2019amour autrement que d\u2019inventer sa sexualit\u00e9 selon les diff\u00e9rents temps de la grossesse en pr\u00e9servant l\u2019attention \u00e0 l\u2019autre, la tendresse et la sensualit\u00e9. Ainsi, chaque couple peut trouver l\u2019\u00e9panouissement \u00e0 sa mani\u00e8re jusqu\u2019\u00e0 la fin de la grossesse. <\/p><h2 id=\"faire-l-amour-apr-s-l-accouchement\">Faire l&rsquo;amour apr\u00e8s l&rsquo;accouchement<\/h2><p>Apr\u00e8s l\u2019accouchement, la r\u00e9\u00e9mergence du d\u00e9sir sexuel demande parfois du temps et souvent, du c\u00f4t\u00e9 de l\u2019homme, de la patience. Son corps n\u2019a \u00e9t\u00e9 \u00e9prouv\u00e9 ni par les al\u00e9as de la grossesse ni par l\u2019\u00e9norme \u00ab parcours du combattant \u00bb que repr\u00e9sente l\u2019accouchement.<\/p><p>Fr\u00e9quemment, la femme fait part de ses craintes aux professionnels qui l&rsquo;accompagnent : ne plus reconna\u00eetre son corps, imaginer son sexe distendu, ne plus plaire \u00e0 son conjoint\u2026 \u00a0Elle ressent le besoin de retrouver son corps d\u2019amante mais elle est toute enti\u00e8re absorb\u00e9e par son nourrisson qui l\u2019occupe et la pr\u00e9occupe jour et nuit. Elle d\u00e9pense le plus souvent des tr\u00e9sors de patience pour cet enfant et, du moins pour un temps, le d\u00e9sir sexuel peut se d\u00e9rober.<\/p><p>Plus le partenaire arrive \u00e0 partager les soins au nourrisson, plus la fatigue des nuits sans sommeil est connue par l\u2019un et l\u2019autre &#8211; et plus la tol\u00e9rance et la bienveillance seront de mise.<\/p><h2 id=\"apprendre-se-retrouver-en-couple\">Apprendre \u00e0 se retrouver en couple<\/h2><p>L\u00e0 encore, il s\u2019agit moins d\u2019apprendre \u00e0 faire l\u2019amour diff\u00e9remment que d\u2019apprendre \u00e0 favoriser des moments de retrouvailles sur un autre terrain que celui de la parentalit\u00e9. <\/p><p>Gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 un tiers (grand-m\u00e8re, grand-p\u00e8re, fr\u00e8re ou s\u0153ur, ami&#8230;), si possible bien s\u00fbr, il est parfois salvateur de trouver quelques moments presque vol\u00e9s, \u00e0 l\u2019ext\u00e9rieur du foyer, pour se regarder, se raconter et peut-\u00eatre retrouver le d\u00e9sir. <br><\/p><p>Genevi\u00e8ve WROBEL, psychologue clinicienne, Paris<br><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Quoi qu&rsquo;il en soit, il s\u2019agit alors moins d\u2019apprendre \u00e0 faire l\u2019amour autrement que d\u2019inventer sa sexualit\u00e9 selon les diff\u00e9rents temps de la grossesse en pr\u00e9servant l\u2019attention \u00e0 l\u2019autre, la tendresse et la sensualit\u00e9.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":5640,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","rank_math_title":"Comment apprendre \u00e0 faire l\u2019amour autrement ?","rank_math_description":"Explorez comment adapter votre sexualit\u00e9 pendant la grossesse et pr\u00e9server l'intimit\u00e9 et la sensualit\u00e9 dans votre relation.","rank_math_focus_keyword":"sexualit\u00e9","rank_math_primary_category":752,"ilj_linkdefinition":["faire l|||'amour autrement"],"footnotes":""},"categories":[752,651],"tags":[44,22,506,41,15,38],"class_list":["post-6322","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sexualite","category-parents","tag-sexuality","tag-0-12-mois","tag-genevieve-wrobel","tag-malo-pour-les-parents","tag-premium","tag-sexualite"],"acf":{"prestation_table":"","technical_table":"","nom_professionnel":"","numero_telephone":"","convention_cas":"","contrat_acces_aux_soins":"","sesam_vitale":"","coordonnees":"","adresse":"","profession":"","numero_rpps":"","profession_description":"","commune":"","departement":"","prenom":"","origine":"","date_fete":"","signification_etymologie":"","histoire_origine_prenom":"","personne_celebre":"","age_moyen":"","prenoms_derives":"","prenoms_composes":"","naissances_2024":"","genre":"","prenoms_taxonomy":"","region_stats":"","evolution_naissances":""},"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":752,"label":"Sexualit\u00e9"},{"value":651,"label":"Parents"}],"post_tag":[{"value":44,"label":"#sexuality"},{"value":22,"label":"0-12 mois"},{"value":506,"label":"Genevi\u00e8ve Wrobel"},{"value":41,"label":"malo pour les parents"},{"value":15,"label":"premium"},{"value":38,"label":"sexualit\u00e9"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/heloa.app\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/photo-1525206809752-65312b959c88-9-683x1024.jpg",683,1024,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Heloa","author_link":"https:\/\/heloa.app\/fr\/author\/expert-heloa"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":752,"name":"Sexualit\u00e9","slug":"sexualite","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":752,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":651,"count":22,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":752,"category_count":22,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Sexualit\u00e9","category_nicename":"sexualite","category_parent":651},{"term_id":651,"name":"Parents","slug":"parents","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":651,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Apr\u00e8s l'arriv\u00e9e d\u2019un enfant, il est normal qu'en tant que parent vous vous sentiez d\u00e9pass\u00e9 : de nouvelles responsabilit\u00e9s, un manque de sommeil, les \u00e9motions qui font les montagnes russes. 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